Attempt to help someone. Title unknown. Just read.
Okay… so there’s something I want to talk about that I’ve been thinking about a bit too much lately, and I’m fucking pissed. And if you read this (I don’t actually expect anyone to, but I’m writing this anyway) I hope you take my advice, ‘cause otherwise you’re gonna regret the shit out of it.
So here’s the deal. If you’re in a relationship where you feel like shit or you feel like you probably shouldn’t be with the person- LEAVE! Don’t “wait” for it to get better, ‘cause once it’s been bad for several months in a row and/or your partner is treating you like a pile of dogshit it’s time to move on, trust me! If you haven’t worked it out already, you probably won’t. I’ve only been in one relationship (but I still know what I’m talking about), and it lasted for a bit more than 1½ years. If I would have followed my heart (sounds corny, I know) it would have been like a year shorter.. -.- The thing was that I didn’t really have that many people in my life at that time. I was pretty depressed but then I met this guy and he kind of fixed it. Because of the situation I was in before him, I though I had to have him in my life in order to be happy, when the truth was that I wasn’t happy with him at all. Well, at first I was obviously. But after a few months he started acting like a jerk. But like I said, It was my first relationship and I didn’t know any better. I felt like shit and I wanted to get out of the relationship almost every day, but I thought I was so in love with him and that I was never gonna find anyone like him again if I lost him, and now i fucking HOPE I’ll never meet anyone like him ever again.
While you’re staying with the person that makes you feel less worth or whatever, you are missing out on experiences and people that could potentially be the best in your life. I did and like I said, I fucking regret it and I can’t fucking believe I even doubted myself for a second. Intuition = The right thing. Why the fuck wouldn’t I be able to live without a fuckwit bitch that I didn’t know for most part of my fucking life anyways?! That’s ridiculous. And why the fuck wouldn’t you?
So to sum this up… if your instinct tells you to leave, you probably should. It’ll most definitely end up fucking fantastic if you do. Sure, you might be sad for a while after breaking up, but it’s just temporary and when you least expect it someone else will come around. Someone better. Why waste your precious time on someone who doesn’t make you feel amazing?
And I usually don’t do these type of things, because I’m a complete bitch that pretty much hates everyone (except my friends). I wish someone would have told me this when I actually was in the situation, so this is my “helpful thing of the year”. And some people will probably think I’m crazy, but that’s OK. And if you break up with someone or already broke up with someone.. Everything will work out, it always does.. No regrets.
Oh.. and by the way. If you feel like shit and want to leave, you’re NOT in love. You’re just addicted.